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what would you do if

>> Tuesday, June 30, 2009

What would you do if you married a crazy woman ? Someone who totally drive you up and down the the wall ! This is a hypothetical situation ok.

Let's say you have a job that takes up most of your time and you have a newborn baby and wife at home. You leave early for work everyday and arrive home late. Meanwhile, your wife struggles to cope with the housework and a baby that needs to be nursed. Would you consider yourself an irresponsible husband or just one that is trying to secure his family's future ? Would you feel guilty working with little time for your family ?

What happens if your wife suffers a nervous breakdown ? Worse still, what if you make her feel that she needs to fight for your attention and suffers a disorder such as Munchausen's Syndrome and takes it out on your child ? Just thinking of it is frightening enough isn't it ? To have to suffer it in life is a horrific thought. Too many will suffer and will have to live with the possible consequences.

I was watching an episode of Law & Order SVU and this episode talks about a lady lawyer who is supposedly paralysed from an accident. Her husband loves her dearly and spends every possible moment caring for her. It goes on to tell the story of how she hires an ex-commando to steal a list of viruses from a lab which she uses to inject herself with. She gets sick no doubt. Later the husband finds out that she is no longer paralysed when he pushes her into the pool and she swims !

I call this Evil Munchausen's ! She murders, she self inflicts herself with diseases and she punishes her husband !

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pissed off fire

This is my latest find on the www !

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I am thankful

>> Monday, June 29, 2009

I am thankful ...

  • For the wife who says its hot dogs tonight because she is home with me and not out with someone else.

  • For the husband who is on the sofa being a coucg potato and is home with me and not out at the bar.

  • For the teenager who is complaining about doing the dishes because it means that she's home and not on the streets.

  • For the taxes I pay because it means that I'm employed.

  • For the mess to clean after a party because it means that I am surrounded by friends.

  • For the clothes that fit a little too snug because it means that I have enough to eat.

  • For my shadow that watches me work because it means that I'm out in the sunshine.

  • For the lawn that needs mowinf, the windows that need cleaning and the gutters that need fixing because it means that I have a home.

  • For all the complaining that I hear about the government because it means that we have freedom of speech.

  • For the parking spot that I find at the far end of the parking lot because it means that I am capable of walking and I have a car.

  • For my huge electricity bill because it means I can afford air-conditioning.

  • For the noise my neighbours make because it means that I can hear.

  • For the pile of laundry and ironing because it means that I have clothes to wear.

  • For the weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day because it means that I am capable of working hard.

  • For too many emails because I have friends who are thinking of me.

  • For the alarm that goes off early each morning because it means that I'm alive.


How many of us actually take the time to think of how much we have rather than how little we have ?

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married life humour !

They say that marriage makes a man dizzy, and it's true. As soon as I got a wife, I lost my balance at the bank.

Men want 3 qualities in wives: Economist in kitchen, artist in home & devil in bed. But they get artist in kitchen, devil in home & economist in Bed.

Q: Why do women live longer than men?
A: Shopping never causes heart attacks, but paying the bill does!

Before marriage: Roses are red, sky is blue. U r beautiful, I luv u.
After marriage: Roses are dead, I'm blue. U r my headache, one day I'll kill u.

Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want, and then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.

Man: Is there any way for long life?
Dr: Get married.
Man: Will it help?
Dr: No, but the thought of long life will never come.

Why do couples hold hands during their wedding? It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!

Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do?
Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.

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a disastrous evening

>> Thursday, June 25, 2009

I had a totally disastrous evening yesterday. On days like this, I should never be allowed into the kitchen but who's to tell me no. First I had this craving for potato salad; one of my all day favourites. On my way back, I grabbed 4 medium size potatoes from the shop. Got home, washed the potatoes, filled the pot with water and some salt and put them to boil.

While I was waiting for the potatoes to soften, I decided to start my other project; baking a cake using honey to substitute sugar. A tip published in the newspaper made it sound too easy. It said to use 25% less if substituting with honey. One's liquid and the other's solid. How do I relate sugar and honey ? That was the first issue that cause some healthy brain cells to die ! Then I thought to myself, never mind ... I agak-agak can already (making a wild guess). So I put the softened butter and half a bottle of honey into my mixing bowl and started off. Thank God I have this good habit of breaking eggs into a bowl before mixing into my cake batter because (yucks !) one of the "fresh" eggs that I bought was bad ! I always try to do everything the fast and easy way and will always beat rather than fold the flour into the batter. As I have always done, I put 2 tablespoons of flour into the batter and started the mixer. For the first time and I don't understand why, I found myself and everything else covered in flour ! Tiu Niamah !!!! Haiyo...how can such things happen. Like it was my first time baking or what.

Meanwhile, my potatoes were done, dunked them in cool water and left them in the pot. Put the cake in the oven and set the temperature to 170 de.C. Next I set the timer of 35 minutes. Done. Meanwhile, I started to peel and cube the potatoes and put them in the fridge to cool. Wah...the cake beginning to smell really good (stomach rumbling and saliver glands activated). I noticed that the cake was browning a bit too fast on the top and changed the oven setting and lowered the temperature a little. Got back to my potato work, added 2 tablespoons of mayonaise, a squirt of salad cream and dashes of worchesterchire sause, black pepper and finely chopped garlic. Mixed them all up and sat down to enjoy my much anticipated potato salad. Aiya...my potato was still hard in the centre !!! This was the 1st catastrophe. Meanwhile, cake was still in the oven and smelling great.

The timer sounded "cring" and I checked my cake. It was still wobbly in the centre so I let it bake for another 15 minutes. The time passed and I turned off the oven and took the cake out. Let it cool for another 15 minites and took the cake out from the pan. It was a bit too browned on the bottom but that was fine. Later when I cut the cake, I found that the top was a bit too "crispy" and the bottom part of the cake was brown on the inside too. That was my 2nd catastrophe. Not only that, I spoilt my non-stick cake pan when I dropped it, left cake crumbs all over the floor and dropped the sppon I used for the mayonaise on the floor. What else could go wrong ?

Overall, the potato salad tasted good, the cake texture (the good part) was perfect and the sweetness was what I always wanted. Today, I am going to give the cake recipe another go. This time, I'm gonna use the entire bottle of honey, use more flour and reduce the number of eggs. Here's yesterday's recipe :

250 gms softened butter (reduce to 200 gms)
180 gms honey (increase to 300 gms)
200 gms self-raising flour (increase to 220 gms)
5 eggs (reduce to 4)
1/2 cup of full cream milk (reduce to 2 Tsp)
Dash of vanilla essence
Wish me luck !

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value of life

Here's a lovely and perfectly executed advertorial by our Yasmin Ahmad.

Click here to watch.

When I saw the advert, I was just so touched. It's so natural and how many would actually want our snoring and farting habits replicated at our memorial. But it's true. When I first moved to my new home, I stopped counting the nights when I laid awake, tossing and turning in bed. I missed the sound of traffic (which I used to hate) and the sound of the LRT train braking (I hated this even more). We seldom appreciate what we have and only do when we no longer have them. Aren't we all human !

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motherhood

>> Wednesday, June 24, 2009

I received this email yesterday when I was away from work and I just realized how close it rang to the truth. Many women are becoming mothers because it is what is expected of them while for some others, it's pure social pressure that you are never a woman unless you bear at least a child. Here's the email that I'd like to share....

"Being A Mother" by Dale Hanson Bourke

We are sitting at lunch when my daughter casually mentions that she and her husband are thinking of"starting a family." "We're taking a survey," she says,half-joking. "Do you think I should have a baby?" "It will change your life," I say, carefully keeping my tone neutral. "I know," she says, "no more sleeping in on weekends, no more spontaneous vacations. "But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my daughter, trying to decide what to tell her. I want her to know what she will never learn in childbirth classes. I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing will heal, but that becoming a mother will leave her with an emotional wound so raw that she will forever be vulnerable. I consider warning her that she will never again read anewspaper without asking "What if that had been MY child? "That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt her. That when she sees pictures of starving children, she will wonder if anything could be worse than watching your child die. I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish suit and think that no matter how sophisticated she is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the primitive level of a bear protecting her cub. That an urgent call of "Mom!"will cause her to drop a souffle or her best crystal without a moment's hesitation. I feel I should warn her that no matter how many years she has invested in her career, she will be professionally derailed by motherhood. She might arrange for childcare, but one day she will be going into an important business meeting and she will think of her baby's sweet smell. She will have to use every ounce of her discipline to keep from running home, just to make sure her baby is alright. I want my daughter to know that everyday decisions will no longer be routine. That a five year old boy's desire to go to the men's room rather than the women's at McDonald's will become a major dilemma. That right there, in the midst of clattering trays and screaming children, issues of independence and gender identity will be weighed against the prospect that a child molester may be lurking in that restroom. However decisive she may be at the office, she will second-guess herself constantly as a mother. Looking at my attractive daughter, I want to assure her that eventually she will shed the pounds of pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about herself. That her life, now so important, will be of less value to her once she has a child. That she would give it up in a moment to save her offspring, but will also begin to hope for more years, not to accomplish her own dreams, but to watch her child accomplish theirs. I want her to know that a cesarean scar or shiny stretchmarks will become badges of honor. My daughter's relationship with her husband will change,but not in the way she thinks. I wish she could understand how much more you can love a man who is careful to powder the baby or who never hesitates to play with his child. I think she should know that she will fall in love with him again for reasons she would now find very unromantic.I wish my daughter could sense the bond she will feel with women throughout history who have tried to stop war and prejudice. I hope she will understand why I can think rationally about most issues, but become temporarily insane when I discuss the threat of nuclear war to my children's future. I want to describe to my daughter the exhilaration of seeing your child learn to ride a bike. I want to capture for her the belly laugh of a baby who is touching the soft fur of a dog or a cat for the first time. I want her to taste the joy that is so real, it actually hurts.My daughter's quizzical look makes me realize that tears have formed in my eyes. "You'll never regret it,"I finally say and then I reach across the table, squeeze my daughter's hand and offer a silent prayer for her, and for me, and for all of the mere mortal women who stumble their way into this most wonderful of callings. This blessed gift . . ..that of being a Mother.

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MedKlinn water

>> Monday, June 22, 2009

MedKlinn Water
MedKlinn Mobile

MedKlinn Haven


How many of you have tried MedKlinn products. So far, I have 3 units of Haven and 1 mobile unit for the car. At first I was as skeptical as anybody else. Who wouldn't be when there are so many similar products available in the market and what more when I had to pay RM499 each 3 years back ! Just moments ago, I received this email. The subject was quite confusing. It would seem that MedKlinn has launched a new product and I AM EXCITED ! I am very much a faithful and diehard MedKlinn user and will vouch for this product any time. I was one of the very first to purchase the MedKlinn room unit in Malaysia. At that time, it wasn't even called MedKlinn. It was simply known as MedKlinn. This is my testimony that it works. Where I live, clothes are stolen all the time so it's my habit to dry my clothes indoors. Sometimes, harder to dry prices such as jeans dry with a musty smell and it's back to the washing machine for me ! With my first MedKlinn, I placed it closeby where I dried my clothes and even if the weather is gloomy, my hard to dry pieces no longer smell musty ! I must admit...I have a nasty habit of smoking indoors. My MedKlinn also got rid of any smell of stale smoke. My mum loved it ! I invested in a 2nd and 3rd unit and later the mobile unit. Yeah..I smoke in the car too and the mobile unit has worked wonders for me and my passengers. Honestly, I'd recommend MedKlinn anytime. They've improved the units from the original MedKlinn. When they had a trade-in promotion last year, I did exactly that. I got all new Havens by paying RM199 for each unit that I traded-in. I can't say much about dust control because I clean often and will never allow dust accumulation. That I will leave for someone else to try. Now MedKlinn Water ? I hope to get one soon and I am hopeful that it'll work as well as the other MedKlinns that I have. In case you are wondering, this is not a paid blog. I'm just an excited blogger !!!

If you want to learn more about MedKlinn click here.

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breakfast anyone ?

I tell you...this morning I had nasi lemak and sotong for breakfast at 7.30am. Nasi lemak is rice cooked in coconut milk and screwpine leaves. It is served with peanuts, fried anchovies, hard boiled or fried egg, cucumber and sambal (chili paste cooked with shrimp paste, onions and tamarind paste). Malaysians love this for breakfast even though many would try to convince us that it's unhealthy ! Only live once right so might as well enjoy ! To accompany the main nasi lemak dish, there will usually be an assortment of curries and other dishes; to name a few... chicken curry, squid sambal, fried tumeric chicken, chicken & beef rendang, prawn sambal, sardin sambal. My stomach today is like a bottomless pit ! Not more than 2 hours later, I started craving for something sweet so my colleague and I went downstairs and I got myself a tray of cream puffs !!! Soon I needn't bother about using the lift. I could just as easily roll 8 floors down ! I hope I remember that I wanted to share some really nice recipes I've been trying over the past 2 weeks. Some are original while others are tested from other blogs and website. Problem is I'm not into photography and will always forget to take photos before I start to indulge. By the time I remember ALAMAK too late...everthing's a holy mess !

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plea for support group


This email brought tears to my eyes. I asked myself how Ayden's parents must feel. The loss must have been excruciating. His smile is angelic and innocent. God must have loved him so much more. Here's the email....

The past weeks have come and gone without me as I still feel I am living in a terrible dream. Every moment of everyday is another moment without my beautiful baby Ayden. If I could give up my life for him I would, I know there is nothing that I wouldn’t have given up for him. It’s as if my life stopped the day he passed, he took my heart with him and it will never be the same again.On 2nd May 2009, Ayden was born at 37 weeks after a completely normal pregnancy. He weighed 3.24 kg and was absolutely beautiful. When he was 4 days old, he was given 2 days of phototherapy due to jaundice and we were told he was perfectly fine. When he was 9 days old, he suddenly turned pale and was rushed to the hospital and admitted into NICU. 24 hours later, my baby passed away. This was one month ago.All tests for infection and metabolism have come back negative and we are still trying to cope with his loss, let alone the reason for his passing. The doctors have debated over this and are unable to give us a reason. Unlike SIDS, Ayden was less than a month old and deteriorated very rapidly despite the various medical interventions administered. Words cannot express the sorrow and pain we are enduring, there is not a minute that goes by that I do not yearn for him. The most difficult part is the not knowing. I guess I am writing this so I would not have to go into reliving the horror every time someone asks ”what happened?” While we appreciate everyone’s concern and we understand they mean well, nothing anyone does or says will change things or bring him back. We are left to pick up the shattered pieces of our hearts and continue our lives without him.When we left the hospital, we had nowhere to turn to. There were no support groups or information given on situations like ours despite our requests for it. We were hopelessly left alone to deal with our grief. All I wanted was to talk to someone who had gone through a similar experience, to tell me I will be ok, to understand my grief. I managed to find help through an online support group by people who have all walked down this path. It was heartbreaking that this had happened to so many people, but also comforting that many of them have continued to have perfectly healthy children afterwards.In memory of Ayden and the lack of information and unavailability of a support group in Malaysia, we would like to appeal for your help. We do not know anyone else who has experienced such a tragedy, but to ensure that other families going through this horrible experience will not have to go through it alone, we will greatly appreciate if you can inform the people you may know who have travelled this road to get in touch with us, if they are willing. They can write to us at aydenhansen@gmail.com.Hugs, Jo and Sune.

It is with my sincere hope that any of you can share with Jo and Sune will contact them.



Rest in peace Baby Ayden.

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Malaysia Airlines Travel Fair



The Malaysia Airlines Travel Fair is BACK ! Great deals for those who plan for some R&R. It's happening from 22 June until 5 July 2009. For more details, visit Malaysia Airlines website here.

I have loads of friends who have taken advantage of the Malaysia Airlines and MATTA Fairs to travel. Problem is (for me at least), accommodation costs are high and whatever savings we may gain from the air tickets can be used to off-set the cost of accommodation.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS !

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God.com

>> Friday, June 19, 2009


When I received this email from my school alumni, I knew I had to share this with my blog readers. It made me realize how much we come to rely on our email and mobile phones; more so the addresses contained in these. I never once thought to ask that God bless these friends of mine and today, after reading this email, I feel the guilt.
Dear Lord,
Every single evening
As I'm lying here in bed,
This tiny little Prayer Keeps running through my head:
God bless all my family
Wherever they may be,
Keep them warm
And safe from harm
For they're so close to me.
And God, there is one more thing I wish that you could do;
Hope you don't mind me asking,
Please bless my computer too.
Now I know that it's unusual
To Bless a motherboard,
But listen just a second
While I explain it to you, Lord.
You see, that little metal box
Holds more than odds and ends;
Inside those small compartments
Rest so many of my friends.
I know so much about them
By the kindness that they give,
And this little scrap of metal
Takes me in to where they live.
By faith is how I know them Much the same as you.
We share in what life brings us And from that our friendships grew.
Please take an extra minute From your duties up above,
To bless those in my address book
That's filled with so much love.
Wherever else this prayer may reach
To each and every friend,
Bless each e-mail inbox And each person who hits 'send'.
When you update your Heavenly list On your own Great CD-ROM,
Bless everyone who says this prayer Sent up to GOD.com
Amen

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honey as a substitute

>> Thursday, June 18, 2009

Can honey be used to replace cane sugar as a sweetening agent ?

Chef Anna Olson says:

I often use honey in place of granulated sugar in baking using the follwoing guidelines:

  1. Reduce the amount of honey by 25%. If the recipe calls for 1 cup of sugar, use 3/4 cup honey instead.
  2. Reduce theoven temperature by 10 deg. C so that the surface of your cake, cookie or tart doesn't burn.

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Reliable Taxi Drivers

>> Wednesday, June 17, 2009

  • How many times have been been victims of taxi companies that promise to send us taxis that never arrive ?
  • How many times have we been cheated by taxi drivers ?
  • How many of us actually feel completely safe in a taxi ?

Here are contacts of some taxi drivers that come highly recommended. Expats in Kuala Lumpur & Petaling Jaya who are concerned about safety use them. I hope that this will help keep you safe.

  • Willie @ (016) 630-9487
  • Mr. Ten @ (012) 207-5180
  • Robert @ (019) 329-6528

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a troubled relationship


Last weekend I was very surprised to receive a call from an ex-colleague whom I haven't met for at least 15 years ! We were living quite close to each other and agreed to meet up later that evening to "catch up". I was shocked when I met A. She is much younger than I am, a single mother but looked as old as if she was in her mid 50's. I later learnt not long after I left the company, she met a man though work and everything was fine until about 11 months down the road. She found out that when she returned to her hometown of Penang to visit her sun during the weekends, this man was actually canvassing town and painting it red with other women. He even brought his lady friends back to the little place that he shared with A. Luck ran out when A's aunt saw him at a night market with another woman and when A's aunt tried to confront him, he ran like his butt was set on fire ! Later, the aunt mentioned the incident to A and what was more shocking was the calmness that she exuded. She broke down only when she confronted that bastard and this is what he said to her, "There are so many pretty women out there and I am a handsome man, so what do you expect from me ?" What a jerk ! That very same night, A left and drove all the way back to Penang to be with her family. She just left everything behind except for her clothes and the little money she had. She said it was "contaminated with scum" and I agreed with her.This is what I have to say...... I applaud A fro her bravery and for accepting the facts of life. It was better that she found out about that bastard sooner than later. Believe it or not, they were even planning to marry in a few months ! A has no doubt aged a lot but she accepts that about her life. She's happy that her son is doing well and has grown up to be a loving son with whom she shares a very close relationship. According to her, he is very responsible and always takes careof his grandparents. A is also doing well at work now, remains single and dedicates her free time to family. You're one gutsy woman A !

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speak ENGLISH or ENGLAND

>> Thursday, June 11, 2009


This is a very common phrase here in Malaysia, "Wah...your England damn terror ah !" and most who have this directed at take it good-heartedly. Wouldn't we rather speak English rather than England ? It's just like when I had a colleague ask if I am Christmas (rather than Christian). I am a Malaysian who never realized that the English language was not a subject compulsory to pass in the high school (SPM) examinations. I always thought that it was until recently when the government publicized this. Not too long back I was asked to assist a division to source for a Secretary and I was shocked at the level of English competency of some of these overseas graduates; government scholars no doubt. How did they even make it through the 1st day of uni ! When I asked them a question, sometimes there was just silence. So I did the most logical thing...chuck their resume into the bin ! What else ? These fresh graduates ask for the world yet offer nothing more than a rotten pea in return. First of all, why even bother applying for a position with a foreign company when you can't even speak the language. I heard someone comment on the radio this morning, "if you can't survive in Malaysia, how can you survive outside Malaysia ?". Lady, I soooo agree with you. Our government says they want to make passing the English language at high school level compulsory yet the rural folks have so much to say. Living in the shell that they are so used to, are more concerned that their kids pass the exam rather than be concern that what they learn help them in their careers. They say that their rural kids will suffer because they wil nt be able to cope or catch up. So what ? Isn't it better to suffer now than much later ? The fear only shows that there is much to learn. I hate science subjects so can I appeal to the government to just scrap the darn subjects so I can pass my exams ? These kampung (village) folks and just so ignorant and bodoh (stupid) ! Everything also cannot this and cannot that and it's no wonder that until now still cannot anything ! Learn lah !!! Then there are those who actually memorize the use of words in a sentence. I came across a person who commented that a lady's dress was arrogant...WHAT ??? Oh, thinking that I did not understand the word, she repeated herself and stressed A-R-R-O-G-A-N-T... very class (classy) lah she said again. Yep..she meant ELEGANT ! This is what we call "England language". It may seem funny now but as we embark on our careers, it will no longer be funny. The fools will end up waaaaay behind, dictionary in hand. Laugh if one must but if there is no effort, there will never be progress.

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dogs: beyond traditional islam

>> Wednesday, June 10, 2009


Dogs : Beyond Traditional Islam
By: Lydia Kelley

Why is it that dogs are looked down upon in the so-called Muslim world ? Why has tradition made it so difficult to keep a dog in your home ? Why would a "Muslims" Taxi driver refuse to allow a blind man and his guide dog into his cab ?

Dogs are wonderful creatures of God. They bond with humans, protect them and serve them and that has been true almost since God placed man on earth. Does it make sense then that Muhammed (or any messenger of God) would place prohibitions on these loving creatures when God does not?
How do we know that Muslims are not forbidden to be around dogs? We look at God's word, at the Quran. In the story of the men of the cave in Sura 18, it becomes clear that God sees dogs as part of men's lives.

18:18 "You would think that they were awake, when they were in fact asleep. We turned them to the right side and the left side, while their dog stretched his arms in their midst."
Hadith tells us that angels won't enter a room where there is a dog. That means that for 309 years that the sleepers were in the cave, no angel ever entered. Yet God says "We turned them...." The use of "we" clearly indicates the participation of angels. There is absolutely no reason to mention the dog as part of this story, except to make it clear to future generation that dogs are permitted to live among people, right "in their midst." And 18:22 clearly shows that the dog was counted right along with the believers.

"Some would say, they were three; their dog being the fourth, while others would say, Five; the sixth being their dog, as they guessed. Others said, seven, and the eighth was their dog. Say, My Lord is the best knower of their number. Therefore, do not argue with them; just go along with them. You need not consult anyone about this."

There are books of the Bible that don't make it into all Bibles. They are recognized by some sects but not by others. These are called "apocrypha." One such book is entitles "Tobit." It is a wonderful narrative. It reminds me of Luqmaan in the Quran. A faithful man counsels his son to worship God always, to be righteous, to give charity and never begrudge the gift, to be humble and to be fair in all business dealings. In this book of Tobit, the son, Tobias, goes off on a journey to help his father. God sends with him an angel in the form of a man, and chapter 5 verse 16 says;

"So they went out and departed and the young man's dog was with them." And as they return home, after all the adventure and good things that happen , in chapter: " After this Tobias went on his way, praising God because He had made his journey as success....So they went their way, and the dog went along behind them."

There is no other mention of the dog in the whole narrative. It is just like the people of the cave. There is no reason to mention the dog at all, except to show that it's a perfectly natural thing to be accompanied by your dog. God certainly does not prohibit it.

God has given dogs qualities that make perfect companions and helpmates for humans. The fact that dogs like to be around people and like to please them makes them easy to breed for specific characteristics and to train for a variety of wonderful jobs. Dogs come in all shapes and sizes from the 5" tall, 6 pound Chihuahua to the Mastiff and St. Bernard which may reach 200 pounds. Some dogs are meant to simply be a companion to man, small enough to carry around and sit on your lap. Scientific studies have shown that just petting a dog can lower a person's blood pressure. So their simple companionship is a gift from God.

Beyond that, dogs perform a vast array of wonderful skills. Dogs are excellent herders and guards of sheep and cattle. Some dogs have a natural desire to protect. Police and the military frequently make use of this attribute, using German Shepherds , Dobermans and Rottweilers in their work. Dogs are wonderful in search and rescue. This has gone on for hundreds of years, from the famous St. Bernard of Switzerland finding people lost in the snow and laying down with them to keep them warm (they did not carry a keg of brandy) to modern times, finding survivors in the rubble of earthquakes.

Dogs have always participated in the sporting world, as the Quran attests in 5:4
"They consult you concerning what is lawful for them; say, Lawful for you are all good things, including what trained dogs and falcons catch for you. You train them according God's teachings. You may eat what they catch for you, and mention God's name thereupon. You shall observe God. God is most efficient in reckoning."

Yet according to Hadith, anything a dog touches must be washed seven times, the final time in dust. That seems inconsistent with the Quran saying you may eat what they catch for you. The beautiful bird brought back proudly in the Retriever's mouth would have to be washed seven times, finally in dust. It does not sound very appetizing.

Recently man has come to rely on the dog more for companionship and affection than anything else. And out of that has come the use of dogs as eyes, ears, arms and legs for the disabled. To watch a seeing-eye dog guide a blind person down a busy street or through a crowded mall is a truly inspiring sight. It allows freedom and independence that this person would not otherwise have.

For a deaf person, a hearing-ear dog allows him or her to live alone without fear. The dog can be taught to alert his owner to the doorbell, telephone, alarm clock, and smoke alarm. A deaf couple can respond to their baby crying, for the dog will alert them. The world is not so frightening and they do not feel so alone, with a dog to hear for them.

For someone in a wheelchair, or someone whose arthritis won't allow them to bend or lift, a dog can provide so much help and comfort. The simple act of picking up a dropped objet is something we take for granted. But to a disabled person, it might mean the humiliation of always having to ask for help. With a service dog by his side, that same person achieve independence and self-esteem. The dog is happy to get the pen or the keys or the pill bottle, even if it rolls under a table.

The positive qualities of the dog-loyalty, dependability, tolerance- have been recognized throughout history. Mark Twain said "If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man." And Lord Byron's epitaph for his dog says "[He] possessed beauty without vanity, strength without insolence; courage without ferocity; and all the virtues of man without his vices."

And of course the most important trait of all, which Byron missed, is complete and total submission to God for all his life. I think we'd be well served to share our lives more with these wonderful creatures, and learn more from them.

"The heavens and the earth are full of proofs for the believers. Also in your creation, and the creation of all the animals, there are proofs for people who are certain." (45:3-4)

"Among His proofs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the creatures He spreads in them. He is able to summon them, when He wills." (42:29)
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man's best friend

They comfort and assure

They're great walking companions and they make sure we get the exercise we need !

They let us teach them stupid stuff and still pretend you're the smartest person on earth

We show them our ugly poses and they still think we're the prettiest person God created

And they teach us how to have fun

They remind us to pray

And....they learn to share our interests

They love us for who we are

They tolerate us no matter what we do to them !

Share and share alike

They're good for cleaning the drool of our faces !

They're the most reliable shoulder we have to cry on

They're the best when it comes to spending a quite moment together


You're simply the best !

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pawprints in poetry

I found this on Google Images and am happy to share this with everyone...

PAWPRINTS
We explored the world
Sights and sounds
Smells and touch
snuggles touched
Smiles transcend
Eyes communicate
Loved and respected
Wonder and awe
Joy and love
Romping and teasing
Hunting and protecting
Living side by side
Living beyong boundaries
Of family, neighbors and friends
Companions in eternal mystery
Pawprints
side by side
with footprints
Sharing life's adventure
by Carolyn Allen

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the right to choose

>> Tuesday, June 9, 2009

This is a hypothetical situation OK.....

Let's say I am diagnosed with cancer and my finances are limited. The doctors tell me that I have 1-2 years to live and medical treatment would cost drain my finances. The end result would still be death. It's only a matter of time and the quality of life I choose before I go.

Would I have a right to refuse treatment and let the disease take its natural course ?
Would I have the right to choose not to let the surviving members of my family suffer ?
What if I become delirious or incapacitated and cannot refuse ?
Would it be legal to state it in a Power of Attorney ?

I don't see myself popping pills like its a whole meal. I realize that any illness brings with it a considerable amount of suffering but I'd like to be minimal. I don't want to cause suffering to my family members and most of all, I want to live my remaining days to the fullest !

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why not footprints ?

>> Monday, June 8, 2009


All my friends who know about my blog have asked me why I have chose pawprints and not footprints. I have a few reasons....I love dogs, 4 is better than 2 and it's my tribute to man's best friend !

In life, we create impressions; some lasting and some not. They mould us to become what and who we are. Likewise the prints that others make. As we move along in life, we meet all sorts of people; people whom we admire and aspire to become, people we despise and people we love. It is the same with situations and incidents in our lives. Some are sad and others joyful. We learn from all these experiences; people and things that happen to us.

My life has not been a bed or roses but I am proud of what I am and who I have become. It was not college that taught me the most but the things that I lacked in life. This was my driving force along with my wonderful grandparents, my mum and my maternal family who have been supportive in every possible way. I have made my fair share of mistakes and some of them were reckless enough but I AM WHO I AM.

My wise grandfather once said, "Be nice to people on your way up because these will be the same people you will meet on your way down".

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cancer...and then what ?

First you go for your regular medical check-up. It's the annual routine thing and you walk into the clinic with a huge smile. A few day's later, you get a call asking that you meet with your doctor as soon as you can to discuss the results of your test. Then your doctor drops the bomb on you and ends the sentence with "don't worry". Hey...who has cancer now ? Unless you have it too, don't tell me not to worry you jackass ! All sorts of thoughts travel through your head at lightning speed. NO, I am not a victim of cancer but since the beginning of 2009, I've had 2 friends diagnosed with cancer. I've often had this thought in my mind....what if I fall ill when I'm 70 and I have no financial means to seek medical attention and I won't even have insurance then ? Will I just have to be patient, pray and wait for death to mercifully come knocking at my door ? What we have in the nest today may hardly be enought to to feed ourselves what with the cost of inflation. So am I pessimistic to say that only the rich will survive and let the poor die ? It's a sad thought that has caused me a great deal of worry lately. I won't even have kids to care for me. Malaysia is so unlike Europe where there are retirement homes. It is something that you can plan for at a younger age. So what if we have a pension fund when a single coronary ailment alone will deplete this resource. Ok OK I'm running away with my thought.

Back to cancer....
My friend's husband who was diagnosed with cancer early this year has so far spent more than RM100K on treatment. He's just complete the 4th cycle of chemo and was told that the cancer had spread to his spine. Cost of chemo has increased 3x ! They are considerably worried about their finances and that was before they got the news that the cancer had spread. My other friend that was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 months back is waiting for treatment at a government hospital. It's a long waiting list and she told me this, "I really wonder whether I will survive all the waiting or not". It's sad and disheartening how the will to fight and survive is hampered by the balance in our bank account. My 2nd friend's insurance policy can hardly afford her medical treatment at a private hospital. In a way, I know that she has lost hope and prefers to keet whatever remaining money for her son and mother. All this got me thinking about life and I conclude that I will pray hard to die in my sleep. That seems to be my only hope and the hope of many for now.

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